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Relationship Spotting: A Pickup Line Straight Out of “Bridesmaids”

Written by emilyc

I was in line at Whole Foods yesterday – the small coffee line, not the labyrinth of stress and confused foreigners that is the general check-out line – and I was hoping for a more relaxed, pleasant in-line experience, but it turned out to be more distressing than ever. I heard the man behind me utter something in an unrecognizable, borderline indecipherable accent.

“What country you from?” he asked.

“Oh, like, here,” I replied, thoroughly cognizant of how cliché-dumb-American-girl-at-Whole Foods that sounded.

“I’ve been looking at you for a few minutes now,” he replied, “and your beauty sweeps me away. Want to go for a walk?”

Not knowing how to respond, I took a cue from Kristen Wiig in Bridesmaids when a strange man asks her if she wants to go for a walk, too, and simply said, “I can’t.”

Ok, first, he’d been looking at me “for a few minutes”? I’m sweating and can’t remember the last time I washed my hair, and out of the trillions of shoppers in Whole Foods, he spent “minutes” looking at me? Weirdsies. I don’t like it. Second, no, I do not want to go for a walk. These Jeffrey Campbells weren’t made for walking, so that’s not what they’ll do. You know what else wasn’t made for walking? New York City in the summer. Third, the homeless people laying outside of Whole Foods were wearing outfits styled better than this man’s unfortunate attempt at business attire.

Now I’m getting judgmental. Eh, whatevs.

Anyways, this interaction ended like this: I said no to the walk, he said, “Some other time?” to which I replied, “No,” to which he replied, “But I won’t be at Whole Foods for another 6 months.” What, is Whole Foods like a biannual thing for him? I wish I had comebacks that consist of more than “No” for these situations, but I absolutely do not. Excuse me while I go consult Gary for ideas.

About the author

emilyc

Emily is a New Yorker trapped in a Floridian's body and loves every minute of her big city life. With a major in international business and years of being surrounded by ill-fitting suits and all the wrong shoes, she learned that the importance of fashion needs to be communicated to the world. To her, fashion is on the same level as charity work and feeding hungry children. Emily can be found frolicking the streets of her gayborhood enjoying the off-color humor of the gays.