In life, I have always said that you shouldn’t sweat the small shit. This is because life throws so much crap at us on a daily basis on its own – without us feeding into the drama of it and making mountains out of mole-hills. If we are spending too much time worrying then we won’t learn the inherent lessons that these events provide. On the opposite side of the coin, I do think it is important to pay attention to the small shit because you never know how much things that you take for granted are going to mean to you in the future.
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When I look at my last relationship there were plenty of big things that went on. I remember particular instances where things weren’t so great, when we had fights or said hurtful things to each other. More than that though, I remember tiny little nuances like the way he used to smile at me even if he was feeling crappy, or the way he cried on the train once and didn’t care who saw him. I also remember the particular scent he wore which smelled like horse shampoo and the way his toenails were grotesque. I filed those fuckers down for him. You don’t know how long your relationships are going to last, and you don’t know what will and won’t be important to you in the retrospect.
So my thought is this: Enjoy the moments when things are good, and accept the times when things are bad. They are both equally important to a relationship, and will both be things you will look back on one day with a smile — perspective.
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I like this. You are wise beyond your years.